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Post by Willjay on Jan 30, 2010 0:09:31 GMT -6
Well.... i've had probably the worst week of my life, now i have to leave Norfolk for the last ever time and go to live back up in Newcastle for good. Sadly i'll be 300 miles away from my 3 little girls and don't know how often i'll get to see them.  My brother has drove all the way down from the top of Scotland over the last 2 days in a van, to come and take me home, which was nice.... we'll be leaving in about 4 hours from now. Very emotional and sad day. Can't even begin to think how sick i'll feel driving away from my girls. At least now i get to start building my life again without all the control and abuse from their mother. It all starts here. Hopefully. |
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Post by shadydave on Jan 30, 2010 4:07:17 GMT -6
Hey Willjay.
As I said - if I am in a position to help let me know - even if it's the most random and tiny thing you can imagine. Being in your situation is definitely a tough place to be but I think a lot of people have got your back and wish you all the best.
Here's hoping that things get better soon.
Dave
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Post by jani92jani on Jan 30, 2010 4:18:52 GMT -6
I am only 17 years old and i dont knwo much about that stuff, But i wish that best of luck and things turns up to be good on you soon
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Post by S-H on Jan 30, 2010 7:36:27 GMT -6
That's a really ***ty situation Willie. I'm sorry you've split up.
I don't mean to pry and obviously you don't have to answer, but:
1- Why don't you get a place nearer to Norwich so you could be closer to your daughters? (Unless of course you'restaying with family in Geordieland)
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2- Why don't you go for full custody of your kids?
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Post by BKW on Jan 30, 2010 8:12:17 GMT -6
Willjay,
I am so sorry to hear that this is happening. I can't imagine being 5 hours away from my girls. I hope things work out soon for you my friend.
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Post by TheLivingDead on Jan 30, 2010 8:30:33 GMT -6
I'm sorry to hear that man. I had a miniature version of that happen a year and a half ago, except my daughter came with me. I don't know you or your particular situation but I'm sure this is the beginning of good things to come. Just keep your head up and know that the future has great things in store for you and your family. Here's to new beginnings.
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Post by roboblaze on Jan 30, 2010 12:28:21 GMT -6
Man, it's for the best, now at least the girls don't have to put up with that. I grew up in a family that would fight all the time. and the up side is maybe you can get custody of you girls sometime in the future. I had my nephews for 3 years when my bro went to jail and I miss those boys every day (mom got them now). It always gets worse before it gets better so hang in there.
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Post by Adam "Steam Master" Bradley on Feb 15, 2010 4:34:09 GMT -6
im sorry to hear that, ive never been in a situation like that myself so i dont know what its like, but it must be hard, i just hope that you get a good welcome up here
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Post by Willjay on Feb 25, 2010 14:31:44 GMT -6
Hey guys.... i'm still alive! ..... just had to move 300 miles back up home to live with my parents..... i'll be on their couch for about the next year, while i learn to drive (one life skill i feel i reeeally need).... i want to do that while i'm living cheap at my parents house. Once i've done that i'll get my own place up here, hopefully near by. These are the streets i grew up on, so i chose to be up here, around my friends and family while not seeing my kids so often (every school holidays)..... rather than living down near them, seeing them once a week, but having NO-ONE round me for the rest of the time.... no friends or family down there. Was a really tough thing to have to do. Just settling in canny up here..... 'tis nice to be on the market for chicks again, lol..... an adventure.... who knows what it will bring.  It was literally driving me nuts at first, going from being with 3 wild kids and a dog all day every day.... to pacing the floor at my parents house most days, eerie quiet..... so i got myself a load of awesome workout gear/weights etc..... now i workout four hours every day (something i've not had time to do 'properly' for years).... so that keeps my mind focussed every day, and is keeping my spirits up. Just dating chicks here and there..... hopefully i'll find one who appreciates my massive.......... nevermind. Going to see "Europe" (with John Norum on guitar) in 2 nights time (Saturday), who are playing in Newcastle.... and i only just found out about it last night.... so i'm real excited about that!!  Will get back into the swing of posting on guitar forums etc. before long.... just felt quite distracted from usual things lately. Today i had to start sifting through 350 emails just from my Shawn Lane YouTube page, that have built up over the last 2 weeks. Anyway... just thought i'd give a little update to my bro's here.  WJ. |
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Post by Mr.Tepes on Feb 25, 2010 22:48:38 GMT -6
Just dating chicks here and there..... hopefully i'll find one who appreciates my massive.......... nevermind. ...Shawn Lane video collection? ;D Good to hear you're doing ok, man; I know it's rough, but I'm sure things will turn out for the better! |
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Post by Willjay on Feb 26, 2010 2:19:09 GMT -6
Just dating chicks here and there..... hopefully i'll find one who appreciates my massive.......... nevermind. ...Shawn Lane video collection? ;D Good to hear you're doing ok, man; I know it's rough, but I'm sure things will turn out for the better! ROFL!!!... nice one! |
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Post by Michael Angelo Batio on Feb 26, 2010 10:48:44 GMT -6
Willjay, it's good to hear that things are coming together for you. Also, it is amazing the clarity one can get from a good work out!  |
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